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AC/DC
A person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex interaction.
often termed "bi" or bisexual.
ADULT
Euphemism for pornographic.
ALL
CULTURES
a person or couple who enjoy all fetishes and sexual activities.
AMERICAN
CULTURE
The missionary sexual position, i.e. the man on top and
the woman on her back.
ANALINGUS
Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner
by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
ANIMAL
TRAINING
Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs with women,
aka Bestiality
ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes, aka cultures
B&D
or B/D
Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain
someone while administering discipline, usually done by
a "master" to his/her "slave". (see
BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be
their "ideal" weight, but are comfortable with
the size that they are..
BESTIALITY
See animal training above
BI
Bisexual or Versatile (see AC/DC)
BI-CURIOUS
A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex
activities.
BIZARRE
Unusual sexual desires
BONDAGE
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains,
cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold
a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding
is considered "dominant" while the person being
bound is considered "submissive."
BUKKAKE
a Japanese sexual term that refers to showering a receiver
with sperm from one, several or many men. It is always
a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the giving end
are always male.
CAN
ENTERTAIN
Person who is
willing to host swinging meetings in their own home.
CAN
TRAVEL
Someone who is willing to travel to another location (normally
meaning your own home).
CANING
A spanking fetish employing a light cane (the style that
used to be used in schools for punishment) usually bamboo
or other light wood.
CLEAN
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
CLOSED
DOOR
(see CLOSED SWINGING)
CLOSED
SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms,
usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
CLOSET
SWINGER
A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger.
(see DISCREET)
COUPLE
In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living
together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship)
or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
CPL
(see COUPLE)
CUCKOLD
While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife
who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not)
a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home
to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches
his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This
can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people
use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask
the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially
the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH
CULTURE)
DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic,
for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the
anus.
DIRECTOR
The term used to describe the principal person who runs
or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner.
A person who works for the director and is responsible
for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is
generally called a Manager.
DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other,
a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment
of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint
to mild spankings to painful beatings.
DISCREET
OR DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so
that children or others who may open mail or answer phone
will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging
activity.
DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
DOMESTIC
TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate
and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT
A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
ENGLISH
CULTURE:
Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
ENTERTAIN
(see CAN ENTERTAIN)
EXHIBITIONIST
Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal
or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being
watched.
F
Female
FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially
by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual
objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping
or spanking.
FRENCH
CULTURE:
Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio, Cuntilingus
FUN
AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity.
GAY
A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may
also be called a Lesbian.
GBM
Gay Black Male
GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.
GREEK
CULTURE:
Anal-penile intercourse
GROUP
ROOM
Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with
wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in
western US (see MATROOM).
GROUP
SEX
Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
GWM
Gay White Male
HARD
CORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction
is assumed and expected.
HARD
SWINGING
(see HARD CORE)
HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head"
(see French)
HEDONIST
Someone who lives for pleasure.
HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
HOMOSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
HORNY
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
HUNG
Refers to a man with a large penis.
HWP
Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal
body weight.
INDOOR
Swinging activities in general
INDOOR
SPORTS
(See INDOOR)
INTERESTED
IN FRIENDSHIP
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional
and recreational values.
IRL
In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
ISO
In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching
of leather or leather garments.
LESBIAN
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
(see GAY)
LTR
Long Term Relationship
MARITAL
AIDS
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure
of self and others.
MASOCHISM
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation
from others.
MASTER/SLAVE
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship.
(see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
MATROOM
Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US
term (see GROUP ROOM).
MEET
FOR PLEASURE
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or
emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
MENAGE
A' TROIS
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex
in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
MORESOMES
More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see
GROUP SEX)
MBC
Married Black Couple
MBiC
Married Bisexual Couple
MWC
Married White Couple
NASCA
The North American Swing Club Association. An association
of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the
viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels
of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional
for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community,
media and institutions of learning and research.
NEWCOMERS
New people in swinging; First-timers.
NONSMOKER
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those
who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
OFF-PREMISE
No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet
and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
OPEN
DOOR
(see OPEN SWINGING)
OPEN
SWINGING
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room;
Several or all participating couples together in the same
room. A minimum of privacy.
ORAL-GENITAL
(see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)
ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the
same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone
taking part; group sex.
PARTY
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
PARTY
CLOTHES
Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes
wear to the party and wear to change into during the party.
The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds
and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the
wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts
of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
PARTY
HOUSE (Western US)
A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule
of on-premise swing parties.
PASSIVE
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive
corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging.
(see DISCIPLINE)
PHOTO
Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos
of self with similar photos of others.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually
explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar
photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in
meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
P/P
Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
RECREATIONAL
SWINGER
A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational
diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship
or emotional attachment.
RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
ROMAN
Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)
ROMAN
CULTURE:
Sexual orgies
RUBBER
Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through
the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated
with B&D.
SAFE
Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate;
a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically
sterile.
S.A.S.E.
Self-addressed stamped envelope.
SBF
Single Black Female
SBiF
Single Bisexual Female
SBM
Single Black Male
SGL
(see SINGLE)
S&M
or S/M
Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
SINGLE
A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital
status.
SOCIAL
A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by
a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize.
There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged
swinging may follow a social.
SOCIAL
SWING CLUB
A swing club, generally private membership that offers
social and swinging activities including a regular schedule
of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational
and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee
and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance
fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples
though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
SODOMY
Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either
an opposite sex or same sex partner.
SOFT
SWINGERS
Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner.
No swapping for intercourse.
SOFT
SWINGING
The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being
watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including
intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The
first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging.
(see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
SRS
Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
STD
Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the
late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social
and moral implications in the minds of many. These social
and moral implications interfered with the legitimate
treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical
problem.
STR
or STR8
(see STRAIGHT)
STRAIGHT
Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual
activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used
by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
SUBMISSIVE
Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)
SWAPPING
Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
SWEDISH
CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate
another
SWF
Single White Female
SWING
MAGAZINE
A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually
carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others
for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general
interest to the swinging community.
SWINGING
An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy
social, recreational sexual activities with others, most
often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge
and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women
are sometimes involved.
SWINGING
LIFESTYLE
Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation,
choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate
relationships.
SWINGING
MARRIAGE
Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic
ideals.
SWM
Single White Male
TAN
Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
THREESOME
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a
swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
TICKET
A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely
to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally
has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
TOYS
Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
TRANSSEXUAL
Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender
to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or
one who is in the process of gender conversion
TRANSVESTITE
A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing
clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily
homosexual.
TRAVEL
(see CAN TRAVEL)
TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a
continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement.
Not the same as a threesome.
TRIOLISM
Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes".
This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
TUBAL
LIGATION
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian
tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid
Operation in reference to the small incision made just
below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
UTOPIAN
SWINGER
A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with
humanistic ideals.
VASECTOMY
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens
to artificially sterilize a male.
VERSATILE
Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
VIBRATOR
Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the
vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris,
breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile
shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones
are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a
typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and
women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
VOLUPTUOUS
Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to
a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer
to full but well formed hips.
VOYEUR
A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
VOYEURISM
Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others
engaged in sexual activity.
WAY-OUTS/
WEIRDOS
Those people interested in activities usually considered
by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.
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